A birthday wishlist that reminds your friends for you.

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Sophia's birthday wishlist
Sophia's birthday list, as a friend sees it — opened from a plain link, with a Reserve button on every gift.

Everything your birthday list needs

  • No account needed to view

    Friends and family open your list in any browser, without an account or an app

  • No duplicate gifts

    Signed-in guests reserve gifts anonymously, so nobody buys the same thing twice

  • Add from any shop

    Paste a product link, and on most shops the title, photo and price fill themselves in

  • Friends get reminded

    Mutual friends hear when your birthday is coming up

  • Free with no adverts

    Free to use without limits, with no adverts, paywalls or tracking cookies

  • Works on every device

    Opens in any browser on a phone, tablet or computer, with nothing to install

How it makes your birthday smoother

No need to announce the date

  • Mutual friends know your birthday is coming without you having to bring it up
  • You always know which friend's birthday is next, and can keep them in your calendar
  • Only mutual friends see your birthday, and your age stays private
A friends page with upcoming birthdays

No dropping hints

  • Friends see what you want without you having to ask or suggest anything
  • Say the exact size or colour, so you get the right one
  • Friends can find something within their budget
Sophia's wishlist with a note under each gift

Still a surprise

  • Friends reserve a gift so others know to pick something else
  • Nobody sees who reserved what, including you, so your gifts stay a surprise
  • Let anyone signed in reserve, or only your mutual friends
Birthday wishlistWith reservations
The list tab, when reservations are on

Espresso grinder

Reserved!

An item somebody has already reserved

Ready in three steps

  1. 1

    Add your birthday

    Only the day and month, and only mutual friends see it

  2. 2

    Add things you want

    Paste links from any shop, with a note for the size or colour

  3. 3

    Share your list

    Friends can open it in any browser, without an account

FAQ

Do my friends need an account?
Not to see your list — public lists open from a link in any browser. Reserving a gift and getting birthday reminders do need one, and reminders only go to mutual friends.
Is my birthday public?
No. Only you and your mutual friends can see it, and only the month and day are stored — there is no year.
Will I see who reserved what?
No. Reservations are anonymous to everyone, including you. You only see that an item is covered, so the gift stays a surprise.
Can I reuse the list next year?
Yes. Mark what you received as owned, add new things, and share the same link again.
Is it free?
Yes. Things To Have is free to use without limits, and there's no paywall coming later.

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